Locul implinirii sufletesti

        

A darui in limbaj popular insemna " a da " ceva cuiva.Plecand de la acest aspect eu cred ca oferirea sau daruirea unui cadou sau unui bun unei persoane, nu trebuie sa urmareasca neaparat ,atingerea unui scop.Ci mai degraba un mod de a ne manifesta respectul,dragostea,afectiunea,uneori chiar compatimirea fata de o anumita persoana.

   Cand este vorba despre daruirea unei jucarii sau carti lucrurile se schimba oarecum.Trebuie sa ne gandim raportul care il are aceea persoana cu jucariile sau cartile ,ii place sa citeasca sa se joace,am intalnit persoane care detesta cartile, jucariile. Daca se potriveste cu  locul si momentul in care ii daruim cartea sau jucaria si nu in ultimul rand rolul practic care-l il va avea in viata celui drag.La aceste intrebari si nu numai, am gasit raspunspe mazinul online unde gama larga de titluri de carti, o gama variata de jucarii,acoperind practic toate mofturile  tuturor . Ne ofera prilej de indeplinire a celor mai pretentioase "mofturi " ale destinatarilor.

   Recomad cu tarie si intelepciunea unui parinte de fetita ,alegerea din,gama variata de papusi a papusi cu printese disney si papusi hello kitty care aduc in viata oricarei fetite sclipirea  de fericire a copilariei dintr-o lume fantezista.Dar daca analizam si efectul benefic asupra dezvoltarii intectului copilului,eforturile noastre mici financiare sunt pe deplin justificate.

     

Elefant ro.,bucuria tuturor

    

Jucariile sunt obiecte  creeate  la scara redusa ,cu scopul de- a oferii copiilor o viziune asupra realitatii ce ne inconjoara.Jucaria poate fi un liant intre  ofertant care poate fi  parinte,bunic,unchi ,matusa etc. si  destinatarul jucariei in cazul meu copilul.De aceea un lucru ce pare banl la inceput,se poate transforma intr-o problema complexa de care trebuie sa tinem seama, vastra,sex, "apucaturi" ce tin de educatie,predispozitia spre un anumit  domeniu,sau de ce nu spre natura, animale.

   Piata romaneasca de jucarii ofera un sortiment bogat  dar si inselator in unele cazuri,jucariile provocand raniri s-au imbolnavirea copiilor.Pentru prevenirea si preintimpinarea unor astfel de evenimente nedorite, eu m-am orientat catre beyblade ,unde dupa o cercetare atenta  mi-am dat seama ca jucariile prezentate corespund cerintelor enuntate anterior si pot aduce o contributie majora in dezvoltarea  psihica si fizica a copilului.

   Deci nu ezitati sa vizitati pagina set cars unde dintr-o gama variata de produse pentru toate gusturile,ve-ti face alegerea perfecta care sa aduca  multa fericire si afectiune in ochii copilului pentru multumirea sufleteasca a parintilor.

Noul SEAT LEON O ALEGERE INSPIRATA

      In contextul social si economic al Romaniei in ambiguitatea si stagnarea pietei auto mondiala si-a facut aparitia noul Seat Leon un model  care prin nou design ,clasa compacta se bucura de aprecierea iubitorilor de cai putere.Am decis cu mare placere sa particip la campania Blogal Initiative Iasi in cooperare cu Moltrans Iasi.Acum ca tichetul "rabla" este 6. 500 lei ,cred ca este o buna ocazie pentru cei ce-si doresc o bijuterie pe roti, cu un design inovator 
    .Gama de motorizări va fi extrem de generoasă. Astfel, entry-level-ul la benzine se face cu un 1.2 TSI de 86 CP, propulsor disponibil şi în varianta mai puternică de 105 CP şi cu un cuplu motor maxim de 175 Nm. Agregatul 1.4 TSI va genera 122 CP iar cel de 1.8 TSI şi 180 CP va fi preluat de pe noul Audi A3.
Fanii diesel vor fi răsfăţaţă de un 1.6 TDI de 105 CP şi 250 Nm care, în echiparea Ecomotive cu sistem start&stop şi sistem de recuperare a energiei la frânare, va consuma doar 3,8 litri de motorină. Clasicul 2.0 TDI are acum 150 CP şi 320 Nm, se va regăsi din 2013 şi pe viitorul VW Golf VII şi se mulţumeşte cu doar 4 litri de motorină.. Frugalul1.2 TFSI şi dieselul 1.6 TDI vor avea emisii de doar 99 grame CO2 la km. Vor exista şi versiunile sportive FR, atât benzină cât şi diesel.
     Transmisiile sunt manuale, în cinci sau şase trepte, ori automate cu dublu ambreiaj, în şase şi şapte rapoarte.
Disponibilitatea arhitecturii modulare MQB permite reducerea substanţială a costurilor prin folosirea unor repere identice pentru modele foarte diferite între ele, componentele comune fiind integrate în proporţie de până la 70%. Astfel, viitorul Seat Leon va avea o competitivitate sporită în raport cu concurenţii săi, preţul său fiind tradiţional sub cel al Golf-ului VII, fără a fi percepută însă de către clienţi o coborâre a ştachetei nivelului calităţii materialelor ori a solidităţii asamblării. 

Pentru început, noul Leon are un design mai agresiv decât vechea generaţie, mizând de această dată pe muchii drepte inspirate de conceptul IBE Coupe.

După cum puteţi vedea şi în imagini, noul Leon va fi dotat cu lumini de zi cu tehnologia LED, iar, spre deosebire de vechea generaţie, mânerul uşii din spate este unul convenţionat. Acest lucru ne face să credem că Seat va pregăti şi un model cu un design mai sportiv în trei uşi.

La interior ne întâmpină o planşă de bord cu un look nou, având elemente împrumutate de "fratele de platformă" Audi A3, dar pe care le vom găsi şi pe viitorul Golf VII. Seat nu a dat nici un detaliu privind motorizările, dar, mai mult ca sigur, noul Leon va împărţi propulsoarele cu noul Audi A3 şi viitorul Golf VII.

Noul SEAT Leon a fost complet redesenat, începând de la sașiu. Este un hatchback impresionant, dinamic echipat cu tehnologii inovative și îmbrăcat într-o caroserie eleganta. Noul SEAT Leon condensează toate punctele forte pe care marca SEAT le-a avut vreodată. Cu farurile dotate cu tehnologia LED, sistemele de asistenta, noul SEAT Leon aduce calități de mare anvergura în segmentul compact.  

     Cu linii vibrante gravate in caroserie cu mare precizie, noul SEAT Leon captează imaginația încă de la început. Consum redus datorita greutății mai mici (90 kilograme) decât predecesorul sau.
    Proporțiile fine, structura de figure a grilei frontale, grila trapezoidale și gurile de aerisire coborâte ii accentuează lățimea și puterea. Eleganta continua la interior. Suprafețele sunt plăcute la atingere. Butoane de control, întrerupătoare au fost proiectate având in minte confortul șoferului. Sunt poziționate intuitiv fix in locul in care iți vine sa le cauți. Un bord in doua nuanțe iți lasă impresia ca ar pluti in aer.    Scaunele sunt montate jos pentru a oferi echilibrul perfect intre confort și spațiu.http://leon.moldotrans.ro/

Cadouri & Perle ,bucuria sufletului

Marea greşeală e să nu-ţi dai seama că a primi este cu totul altceva decât a accepta. A primi înseamnă în primul rând a dărui, a te dărui pe tine însuţi. Avar nu este acela care nu se ruinează făcând daruri, ci acela care nu-şi dăruieşte lumina obrazului în schimbul ofrandei tale. Avar este pământul care nu se înfrumuseţează acolo unde ţi-ai aruncat seminţele.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery în Citadela

   Unele cadouri cer scuze, altele fac promisiuni. Unele cadouri nu încap în geantă, altele nu încap în cap.Plecand de la aceasta premiza si de alte motive obiective,din cauza carora oferirea unui cadou devine un lucru uneori complex, in raport cu persoana careia i se adreseaza.In speta fiind vorba despre partenera mea de viata,care ma "suporta" de peste doua decenii,lucrurile devin sensibile.Eu avand ca obiectiv si scop,unul sufletesc "bucuria mea sa fie in raport cu bucuria ei"

  Am tot cautat pe internet, am gasit"Cadourisiperle.ro"unde dintr-o gama destul de variata de produse cu design placut ,rafinat,elegant m-a frapat"coliere cu perle" Queen cu perle albe,un colier de impact ce te pune in valoare. Placat cu aur alb de 18 k si cu 7 perle naturale albe in forma de lacrima are o lungine de 41 de cm, dar si o prelungire la inchizatoare pentru a fi extins inca 5 cm.

 Oferirea de cadouri este o actiune complexa in fuctie de locul,motivul si persoana careia i se adreseaza.Dar fiind bine informat ,nu ai cum sa dai gres.Recomand cu placere vizionarea site-ului mentionat anterior si cumpararea de produse care nu fac rabat de la calitate,rafinament,eleganta si au preturi mai mult decat accesibile.

Salt Curative Properties

          Salina Praid is a salt mine and it’s situated in Praid, Harghita county, near the right edge of Transylvnian region. Coming from West, Praid (Parajd) is “the gate of Harghita county“. Here the valley narrows more and the mountains are really close.

 Geology
The Basin of Praid is situated on the East coast of the Transylvania Basin ("a huge salt cellar") at the base of Gurghiu Mountains, that forms a micro region so called "The zone of Salt Mines". The geographical zone of the salt mines is unique in its way and the name of "The salt region" comes from the salt mine of Praid. The first document with this name appears in the XVIII-th century, where are inventoried the pastures from the zone. The Basin of Praid lays around the "Hill of Salt" that contains Praid village and the two another "salt villages": Ocna de Jos and Ocna de Sus. The basin has a triangular form and is oriented at the South to Corund village and at the north-west to Sovata. The basin of Praid is separated from the rest of Transylvania by the following hills: Sálas - Firtus (1062 m), Fiasmál ( 983 m ), the stone of Cusmed (991), the stone of Siklód (1025 m ). The Hill of the Salt is called by the local people "salt back" (the highest point - 576m), covers the biggest salt body from the country, its roots are buried underground at 2,7 - 3km in depth. In horizontal section the salt diapir has an elliptic form, with diameters of 1,2 - 14km and in vertical section has a huge mushroom shape. This irregular form is a characteristic of the salt bodies from Transylvania. (for ex. the salt body from Ocna Mures)

  

Treatment

              The underground treatment is based on breathing in the air in the mine, being very benefic for the treatment of the respiratory diseases, such as asthma, bronchitis and allergies. The lenght of a treatment is of 18 days.The underground treatment may be enjoyed at the "50" horizon, at 120 m depth from the surface. During the time spent in the mine, it is reccommended to take long walks or to do the exercises prescibed and supervised by specialists. The treatment is perfect for all persons between the ages of 2 and 60.According to statistical data all visitors that enjoy the treatment at least 3 or 4 times can feel its benefic effects and the resistence of the bofy is increasingi.Therefore Praid has a hospital and three consulting rooms. The visitors are accomodated in hotels, at local families or in the hospital.

  Products

  

INDUSTRIAL SALT (salt for roads)

Main quality characteristics: NaCl min 96,00% Insoluble max. 2,00% Range: 0-4 mm, over 4 mm max. 5% 0-2 mm, over 2 mm max. 5% On demand it may be treated with antianglomerate (Fe (CN)6 K4) Usage: chemistry, textile and leather industry, road defrosting Package: 50 kg bags, 10 kg bags, 1 ton big-bags The qualitative parameters and the package is negotiated according to the consumer needs.

                           

SALT PILLS

Main quality characteristics: NaCl min. 98,50% Insoluble max. 0,06% Weight 10-12 gr. Diameter dimensions 25 mm, height 10 mm Usage: reducing water hardness Package: 1 kg box, 2 kg box, 40 kg bags The qualitative parameters and the package is negotiated according to the consumer needs.

 

BATH SALT foaming, perfumed, relaxing

 Usage: pour a quarter of the bottle's content in the bath tub and fill the tub with warm water, at high pressure in order to form the foam. The 20-30 minute bath will provide a relaxing effect, purifying your skin. Content: salt, foaming agent, perfume, colorants.

                    

BATH SALT relaxing in 5KG package

Usage: pour a 1kg from the package content in the bath tub and fill the tub with warm water, at high pressure in order to form the foam. The 20-30 minute bath will provide a relaxing effect, purifying your skin. Content: salt, foaming agent, perfume, colorants.

                                            

     Coming from West we can call Praid (Parajd) " the gate of Harghita county". Here the valley narrows more and the mountains are really close. This countryside is a real paradise for all those nature lovers who don't limit only to sightsee it from the cars or coaches.
Praid is the biggest municipality from Harghita approximately 4000 people). There are other 3 smaller villages belonging to Praid : Ocna de Jos, (Alsósófalva), Ocna de Sus (Felsosófalva) and Becas (Bekastanya). In the whole municipality there are living approximately 7250 people.
In the center of the town there is an intersection, where you can reach the Bucin Pass through North and Gheorgheni town (Gyergyoszentmiklos) at 51 km . At South - East is Corund (Korond) and Odorheiu Secuiesc (Szekelyudvarhely) at 38 km.
This basin of Praid is limited at North -East and at South - East by the Gurghiu mountains (Gorgenyi havasok) and by the Siklod Hill at the South - West through Harom. Side.

HOW DO YOU MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK ?

         To make a relationship work, it must be clear to both partners that a relationship is, in fact, work. Love is a wonderful emotion, and to know love with another person is to have the basis of what it takes to make a relationship work. But having love without work is like having a really nice car without gas... you're not going to go anywhere. Any lasting and successful relationship requires work to keep it moving forward and only if you work towards maintaining the following traits can you truly understand how to make a relationship work.

     Communication

    Communication is paramount when it comes to making a relationship work. Many couples believe that one partner should know what the other is thinking and then should act accordingly... this is nonsense.

While you should know your partner well enough to know what your partner needs to some degree, we are not mind readers, and to truly get what you want or need you must communicate that. You cannot assume that your partner will somehow know exactly how you like to be loved if you've never communicated this information implicitly. To know how to make a relationship work is to know how to talk.

    Honesty and Trust

   These traits go hand in hand in making a relationship work. You have to be honest to your partner in order to gain the trust you desire. You also have to know how to trust your partner. Many couples mistake having an issue about what's appropriate to having an issue with trust. People in committed relationships should understand the difference.

To clarify, if you're not comfortable with your partner hanging out in strip clubs Thursday through Sunday every weekend does not mean you lack trust, it just mean that that type of behavior is not necessarily appropriate for someone in a committed relationship.

     Loyalty

   To make a relationship work, you must have loyalty to your partner. You support your partner, always, especially in the company of others. Never show "dissension in the ranks", so to speak. Any disagreements the two of you have must be settled behind closed doors. If you want your relationship to work you need to keep all unnecessary parties out of you and your partner's business.

     Appreciation

   Appreciation is key in any relationship. To make a relationship work, you must genuinely appreciate your partner, and take every opportunity to show your gratitude. The worst feeling to have in a relationship is to not feel appreciated. Don't be stingy with the "thank you's" and the "I love you's". Snuggle up to a movie at the end of the day and randomly massage your partner's feet because you know they've worked hard all day, whether in the home or at the office.

   These are just a few important traits to make a relationship work. While many others exist, following these few will get any couple off to a great start and send them well on their way to a long and happy relationship.

     Although it can be difficult to maintain a harmonious relationship of the couple, it's worth to try.

STEFAN HRUSCA

MUSIC BUSINNES WITHOUT BORDERS

 

                  Music business without borders,

 

        If you are involved in the entertainment business then you've probably heard a few tall tales. The following is a list of some of the top myths about the music business.

1. People in the music business will help you out of the kindness of their hearts.

Facts:

The music business is called the music business for a reason. It is a business that just so happens to sell music. Businesses are in business to make money. They are not in business to make ART, however they will sell it. You may find a handful of good Samaritans willing to help for free but generally speaking if helping does not benefit the other party, they won't help.

"People (not counting loved ones) will help you if they think your art will make them money. They will not help you if they think your art will not make them money." -David Naggar, Esq. from  The Music Business Explained In Plain English-

2. Since the economic decline people aren't buying music anymore

Facts:

People are buying music, but they aren't buying it in the same way they used to. Sales of CDs may be down but the sale of single tracks is up! If you are still an unbeliever just check iTunes sales records. Reportedly, Apple has sold 10 billion and counting!

3. Music superstars have and are making tons of money.

This is one of the biggest myths in the entertainment business. When you see a Sean Kingston or Lady Gaga on television you may think that they are living the good life, but really the amount of money he/she brings home is really dependent on the terms of their contractual obligations as well as their money management skills. Simply put, if you spend more than you make you are bound to go broke sooner or later.

Need examples:

MC Hammer

Marvin Gaye

Michael Jackson

The fact of the matter is that all of these artists have seen the highs and lows of the music business. Micheal Jackson, the "King of Pop", even had his money woes. No "superstar" is exempt. Good money management skills are needed in order to maintain a "superstar" lifestyle.

4. You can become an overnight celebrity in the music business.

This is one of the most common myths about the music business. People believe that you can sign a record deal and then all of sudden you are magically on magazine covers and receiving Grammy awards. All of this talk is nonsense. At the end of the day it takes a decent amount of leg work, dedication, passion, perseverance, and strong networking relationships to achieve "success" in the music business. NO ONE HAS BECOME SUCCESSFUL OVERNIGHT however, some people have achieved their goals faster than others. Artists such as Wiz Khalifa, Kanye West, and Eminem spent years building their reputation and brands to become the people they are today. This is why working smarter and not harder is essential in the music business.

5. Talent Trumps Work Ethic

In today's music business, talent still counts but work ethic counts for more. An extraordinarily talented person with average work ethic will generally not do as well as someone with extraordinary work ethic and average talent.

A strong work ethic, more often than not, means that you can be consistent which is of the utmost importance in the music business.

Why?

One word. Marketing. Being able to consistently deliver high quality to the consumer is paramount.  This is where work ethic trumps talent. A person that is able to consistently deliver a satisfactory product to the consumer is, in the words of Charlie Sheen, WINNING! Because of our increasingly shortened attention spans, having someone or something consistently in our faces helps in branding the product, service, or person. Ultimately, this results in people getting paid!Simplistic or vulgar messages hated, but loved for the same reasons, manele resembles Romania.Currently, reveals a study by the Romanian Peasant Museum. For those who sing and dance, manele are, the music of the soul "and the source of wealth. researching for those who are, the dream Romanian" a mirror society in which we live.
           Manele is a phenomenon that can not be ignored. Even if you do not believe,great aesthetic, "a group of researchers at the Museum of the Romanian Peasant (MTR) with colleagues in France and the United States began to
study because, anthropological, represent, national musical identity reconstruction ", with inclusion  minority he, invented "the Roma.

RECONCILED RELANTIOSHIPS BETWEN FRIENDS

            Reconciled Relationships Between Friends

       After a distressing breakup comes the desire for reconciliation with ex. Just as it is difficult to deal with the pain of losing the person you love, this reunion is also quite challenging to accomplish. Yet, if you know the right steps to take, those challenges would most likely be lessened. 

      Come To Terms With The BreakupAcceptance is your first step to take if you desire to get back with your ex lover. Accept that the relationship has ended. Acceptance is indeed hard to do, but this will be your means for starting a new and healthier relationship. When you accept what has happened, you also open your awareness toward whatever has gone wrong in the ended relationship.Think of the breakup as an opportunity for the two of you to find each other's misgivings. It is an opportunity to see which areas of the relationship you have failed to deal with appropriately. It is an opportunity for the two of you to renew and change things for the better.You accept the breakup so that you can begin a new relationship with your ex. Rejection of the breakup and just trying to continue on from where you both have left will not be a good idea. With the fresh start, you can do what is right for the relationship and for your ex right from the very beginnin.Impede Contact With ExYou may think that this step is ironic since your aim is to actually get back together with the person you love. However, understand that the purpose of this is to make you not think about your ex at current time. You are not expected to forget your ex and think as if that person does not exist. You would need this time to focus on yourself. Remember that right after accepting the breakup, you have to assess everything that has happened in the relationship. While not in contact with the person, make use of this time to concentrate on what you could have done, yet did not do; on what you have done, but should not do.Think Things Through This is the time you can utilize to also reflect on things in a different perspective.         Determine if the reconciliation you want to achieve is indeed what will make you happy and content. Find out if you simply want to reunite with your ex, just for the mere fact that you have grown so dependent on him/her. Often, people decide to get back with their ex and then later on realize that they are in fact unhappy being together again and they end up hurting each other more.You will need to invest a lot of time, effort and virtues to accomplish being with your ex again; so while you still have not yet done anything to achieve this goal, resolve on whether it is a goal that is worth pursuing. Planning What You Can DoIf you have indeed settled on a decision that reconciliation with your ex is what will make you happy, your next step is to plan your course of action.

        Remember that you need to start anew. You can begin by befriending him/her again. Keep in mind that it is great to start a romance with solid friendship. At first, show your ex that you are a friend he/she can depend on. Also, include in your plan on how you can take care of yourself, on how to become more attractive and compelling to your ex.EGetting Him Back can show how to reunite with your ex in three simple steps. How I Get Him Back is also a recommended book that will lay down an action plan for getting back together with your love.What can we do when we realize that we have wronged someone? The first step is of course achievement in itself, but the problem is not resolved. We could go free, unencumbered by this mistake will be forgiven if the person to whom I was wrong, for what we once sent into it either in thought or deed, remains bound to the new thread will not break than when it comes recognition and forgiveness. 

       We can not do anything about it, which I tied channel iron goes so steadfast and will unravel if we change and we act otherwise. As with all the effects of what we we plant in Creation: certainly they come back into effect each other, but we do not know when and in what form. Instead we should always be prepared by our attitude, so that when each effect will bring us joy or suffering, to be able to use this experience to not damage our environment.After a while we tend to diminish or even change the meaning of the impression received from what we once planted, but thus fall back into old mistakes will be repeated in another form părânduni is that it is something new and good reason. Only indolence and only deceives us always directed towards reconciliation publicized eyes can see right impression and can be used toward fulfillment of closing the circle of events.

RELATIONSHIP FAILED

                                            

                                                      Relationship failed

       Face it, at some point we have all been heartbroken (After being dumped by an older suitor, I cried so 
hard I thought I was literally dying of a broken heart). Whether your high school sweetheart bid you farewell your senior year of high school, or your spouse decided to call it quits after twenty years of marriage, once that midnight train to Georgia has pulled out of the station, the relationship is officially over.

      While that may be difficult to hear, a severed relationship (of any capacity) is a harsh reality that must be accepted. If that person wanted to be there, then you wouldn't be drowning your sorrows in cheesecake like The Golden Girls. Instead of pouring your energies into factors beyond your control, think about how you can begin the healing process and find an answer to the age-old question... Where do I go from here?

     Despite what people may tell you, its your party and you can cry if you want to. I have never seen tears as a sign of weakness. Rather I have always viewed crying as an opportunity for self-reflection and a much-needed spiritual cleansing (as long as you eventually put your pity-party-pumps back on the shelf where they belong).

     While it is more beneficial to address a complex relationship while there is trouble in paradise, those quiet moments alone after the fact are equally as important. It's important to ask yourself what may have gone wrong in the relationship and also how you may have contributed to its demise. We are so quick to point the blame-finger at the other party, but in all honesty, we have to look inward as well. Unless you were in a committed relationship with the man or woman in the mirror, whether you want to admit it or not, your own actions had some bearing on why you're back on the singles scene.

   Now that you have this time alone, spend this valuable time working on YOU. And if you have truly been honest with yourself, surely you will have identified some opportunities for improvement. Its OK... no matter how put together we THINK we are, there is ALWAYS room for growth and development. Get to know yourself better, make the proper adjustments and only when you're ready, give it another try, and emerge victoriously as the new you. As bleak as it may seem, eventually someone will appreciate who you are and all that you have to offer. It simply takes time.

     P.S. During this self-reflection phase, you may be tempted to call up Mary, Sue and Jane... John, Jack and Paul. Don't. These rebounds are detrimental to the healing process, and although they may provide a night or two of fun, you will only end up feeling more empty than before. Mary, John and their friends can't replace a lost love one or fill that empty void. As cliché as it may sound, only time (spent alone) can heal old wounds. And to be honest, no one really deserves to be a part of all that chaos anyway. So do everyone a small favor and leave that Rolodex or your credenza, your little black book in your drawer and Craigslist right where it belongs. This is your opportunity to be selfish, so make it all about you, all by yourself.

RELATIONAL COMMUNICATION PROCESS

         Communication works best when there is interaction, reaction and interaction, and there is an understanding derived from it. Somewhere in the process is the ability to listen. I feel the best way to explain this is by incorporating the Shannon-Weaver model into this discussion and its application as to why husbands should listen to their wiv.
The sender is widely regarded as the one who initiates the interaction by transmitting his or her thoughts, opinion, or information in a way that a receiver can understand it. The receiver's role is to interpret the sender's thoughts, opinion, or information. He or she completes the process by providing interaction.
     It is widely agreed upon that marriage is a two-way relationship. One gives, the other receives; one has needs that the other tries to meet, and likewise. The bond to their relationship is love, consideration, respect, patience, and faithfulness. No marriage can succeed when one party is giving its all while the other is merely a ravenous consumer or taker.
     Communication is similarly a two-way process, and the parties who participate in it serve dual roles. Once the husband (or wife) has transmitted the initial message, he or she becomes the receiver of the message that's been transmitted by the other spouse. Ideally, this should be done willfully by both, because it is my opinion that effective communication within a marriage produces unity and selflessness.
        The sender's role is to encode the information, thoughts, opinions, and/or actions that may comprise the intended message of words (either written or spoken) in such a way that the receiver can easily and effectively decode the message in terms that he or she can interpret and best understand.
Sufficed to say, if all couples were capable and willing to do this, perhaps a significant portion of relational problems might be solved.

1. The first is the conception of communication as an action-io that you apply to someone else.
It's like "hypodermic needle" because in this approach, you think you're the head squirt party content, just like when you make a shot. Here only one who does the action (communicator) is taken into account. The recipient information, the receiver has a passive role, in this conception transmitter receives no feedback from the receiver and not regulate their behavior according to the interlocutor.

2. A second design (lens) through which we perceive communication is that of "billiard ball" is when applied, cause and effect in communication, we think that people's communication behaviors are due to a number of effects and try to explain as "xa done something in response / response to the aa said / did y ... etc"

At this stage become aware of the receiver, so it's a breakthrough because it is only the transmitter, one that makes communication receives feedback, but still not the correct approach, you think what you do / tell somehow makes on celalalat act / say in a certain way. At this stage, you're still on the wrong track. You are too little aware of the choices we make when we communicate.
Typically, in this situation, you feel things are predictable and controllable.
Hence, there are many times and self fulfilling Prophecies.
3. Aboradrea the right is that of transactional analysis, negotiation waste.
To become more human, more personal need to understand East
this approach and begin to apply it in our lives.
Communication is a transactional process that occurs continuously negotiating waste. When two people talk, each operating with three images: my self (my me), Taul mu (my you) and how I think I see you with me (my your me), so, in total, when suntemoi there six waste that we continuously negotiate.
We also make choice options when talking (negotiating waste)
Therefore I tell you, among the differences between human and nonhuman human is that when you make choices;
and when you're not human, just react, as in the examples decauza effect ...
So now tell you which are the
4 COMMUNICATION choices we make
when negotiating identities.
Sensitivity open (CHOICE 1)
open stereotypy (Choice 2)
Sensitivity closed (CHOICE 3)
OPEN stereotype (choice 4)
and return to
OPEN FIRST CHOICE-sensitivity
When we choose to perceive human characteristics of near us, we recognize and record responses and adjust the message according to this feedback, the dialogue we build together, both participating together and build is what is between us, not me or you.
Active listening (beeps means that listening); many people think that listening, but have a look dead and expression. We nexting, that conversation go on.
Zambia, we feel, we express what we feel, not talking in general terms, vague impersonal and rational, I use it often and try to show that you sincerely reflect our perceptions, they use vague and general, are impersonal and dehumanizing him and the near you. Paragraph is like a robot, not a human.
CHOICE 2 - Stereotype OPEN
It is the position of foreigners on the train. Any person would be in place, he would receive the same information. When you choose this type of communication open, talk about your love life, personal successes and failures. You are open, but you are not aware of the human characteristics of the person you are talking about. Every man in his place would receive the same information from you
Choice 3 - Sensitivity CLOSED
Occurs when you're addressing the person next to you as like "the filler of the rolls" We fulfill multiple roles in life. We are husband / wife, child, mother / father, employer / employee, buyer, etc.. When you are constantly addressing others as like "the filler of the role" and see only their characteristics pertaining to these roles, use dark sensibility.
Imagine an example.
Go to shops and ask three batteries. I speak as a lady such as a seller. If you tell him, oh that beautiful smile you have, or what you dress nice today, already start to be more human and tedresezi as you become aware of her human characteristics, personal and unique.
It is wrong to treat such people? Should not think so. Maybe you are interested in creating a long term relationship with an employee of the supermarket.
But if your wife is constantly treated as just mother, wife, housekeeper, etc-dark sensitivity, it can be inhuman pain. Because marriage is a lifetime relationship and repeatedly treated with sensibiltate closed, people close to, is terribly painful.
Once again, I repeat, we need to begin to realize the communication choices we can make.
You can use them on whosoever, but should be appropriate (APPROPRIATE) for context
The last choice you can make when negotiating waste is
Choice 4 - CLOSED stereotyp
When you say the same things and are not aware of the human side of others.

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The Value of Maintaining Friendship

           We all have childhood best friends and we often assume that these persons would still be our friends when we are all grown up and even until the day we die. Some people are lucky to keep their childhood friends, especially their best friends. However, most people just grow apart and sadly, some childhood best friends just become people who used to know each other.

What are the factors that affect friendship? There are many reasons why a best friend from childhood can be forgotten. One of the most common reasons would be distance. Moving away and growing apart from each other can have the biggest effect on friendships. Although people would often make extra efforts to keep the communication and to maintain the bond, very few friendships ever succeed.

            You honestly considered not "you do not hide anything" other, but they do not hide what expected of you to hide. It is perhaps paradoxical, but it is, honesty is not verified by you, but by other. Are considered sincere when you say only what he wants and what else expects of you to say.If a friend confesses that she's beautiful and intelligent as she is neither one nor the other, you're not honest. If you say it's ugly and not very smart, are you honest. But I confess that all these have absolutely no importance, as others are things you want to tell them that grind their time in a stupid way, like living a dream, the dream of things that one away truth and happiness then surely you're not honest, you're crazy. It may be strange, but we fear a world "unfavorable" a foreign environment, with which we can communicate face that can not be "honest". To not be alone want people to be honest with us. Only sincerity gives us this certainty that we are surrounded by friends, people who love us, that we are not alone. Therefore, in lonely watches are most denominations, open hearts, people seek one another: just to cancel that feeling of isolation final. Honesty is also, like so many others, an aspect of preservation instinct. In fact, sincerity participate in the complicated feelings and pride class is called friendship and who, we must admit, is one of the most serious reasons to love life. 

                      The same thing happens friendship: you are loved not for what you are, but for what your friend sees and believes in you. You, man, you're always sacrificed. You are loved not for you, but what you give, what can justify, verify, contradict or affirm the friend's feelings. And you can not complain, because you do the same, everybody is the same. What a sad kind of friendship is that each of the friends sacrifices freedom of others. By "freedom" means the sum of its possibilities, its willingness to change, to change, to compromise. You loved her friends were accustomed you to see you on the street to meet you at a local or on the sports field, they used to go with them to the cinema, visiting acquaintances, you like generally to do and what their thinking generally what I think too.  

                   Where are you in all of their feelings? Are decomposed and distributed at will or whim assimilated them, and you do the same. If one day you want to do something other than what is expected of you to do, then you're not a good friend, then uncomfortable, tired, hinders. Sometimes you tolerated, it's all love can give your friends your freedom: tolerance.A few days ago some friends try to talk about death, and it seems I would have said, "Honey, come on and let the crap out of the way." They do not understand that what appears to them as nonsense can mean for me an essential problem. And then I wondered what my friends would say if I commit an act of compromising, but urgently demanded my freedom? And I realized that I would try changing from my point of view. They would try to pass a moment me to understand my madness. I would enact crazy, I would tolerate were        

                     I would leave alone. In no case would pass me. However, true love does not only mean the complete cessation your individuality to move in the other. A friendship not only check you give him the freedom of others. Helping a friend in need of heating your caresses, the surround with "sincerity" is not your thing. Some are real tests of friendship: not to violate freedom of not judging it from your point of view (which may be real and justifiable, but can not match the experience of destiny other), not treasure it by what you it or entertain yourself, but for what it is, for himself, in what he must realize that to get a man. And not just a mannequin. Nevertheless no one asks you, as no one asks you real sincerity, but only so earnestly that he wants. Remember that a friendship does not matter only what the other.

                     Each less than we should. It is our great sin: that we thirst for more, that we thank the quarters and therefore each of us so much fear of ridicule. Not only does it give as they should, but take far less than we offer.

ANEXIETY AND RELATIONSHIPS

                               Anxiety and   relationships
    There are many people who suffer from social anxiety at some point in their lives. Social anxiety can be situational for some, while for others, social anxiety can be intrusive in their lives and impair social relationships. Social anxiety is also often higher among introverts and those who were considered shy as children. Social anxiety in teens and adults can lead to avoidance of social situations which cause a person to feel anxious. Social anxiety varies greatly among those who are affected by it, however, and coping with social anxiety should be tailored to an individual's level of social anxiety.

     There are a number of ways to ease the anxiety symptoms which accompany social anxiety. Many adults learn to cope with social anxiety, or overcome the degree of social anxiety when the issue is addressed thorough self-help methods, or professional counseling. Those who are severely impaired from social relationships or social situations due to a high degree of social anxiety should seek professional help. Others, who deal with low to moderate levels of social anxiety may find the following tips helpful.

     1. Identify the Source of Anxiety

One of the most important factors for decreasing social anxiety reactions is to figure out the root of what may be causing the social anxiety in the first place. Childhood memories and experiences with social anxiety may hold the key for some people, while others may be dealing with social anxiety due to self-image or self-esteem issues. Once the root of the social anxiety is discovered, ways to deal with social anxiety can be tailored to fit.

    2. Take a Deep Breath

Deep breathing exercises, where one inhales deeply and takes deep cleansing breaths before exhaling slowly, can be helpful for lowering anxiety levels before entering social situations which cause increased stress. Deep breathing exercises are designed to produce a sense of calmness, which can be helpful for those who are ready to attempt to enter a social anxiety provoking situation.

    3. Take Baby Steps

Overcoming or coping with social anxiety is not often done in giant leaps. People who deal with social anxiety cope better when they take baby steps in decreasing their anxiety in certain social situations. If the goal is to attend a large party, practice beforehand by going to smaller social events. Small steps will increase confidence levels and help to prepare for more anxiety-provoking social situations.

    4. Become Aware of Self-Talk Messages

Social anxiety is often made worse by the messages people send themselves cognitively. Self-talk, also known as the messages we tell ourselves, can hinder progress with coping if self-talk messages support negative beliefs. If self-talk messages are sending negative thoughts, anxiety will likely increase. The key is to be aware of those self-talk messages in social situations, and replace the negative thoughts with more affirming and positive thoughts.

    5. Enlist a Familiar Person to Assist in New Situations

Social anxiety can be decreased for many people when they are not entering a social situation alone. Friends, relatives, or anyone who can be supportive are good to have around when entering a new social situation. Social anxiety can be decreased when a person feels comfortable, and a familiar person can be a great help to those who have anxiety about certain social situations.

    6. Positive Affirmations

Many of the fears people with social anxiety have can impair them from developing social relationships or going to social events. Social anxiety, unfortunately, must be dealt with in many situations where people have no choice but to attend. Class presentations, public speaking, mandatory parties or celebrations, and work duties may require those who suffer from social anxiety to be present. Positive affirmations can be helpful and writing down a few affirmations on an index card or posting some at home may help some people to cope with anxiety.

    7. Fake it

One of the most priceless words of wisdom for those who are affected by social anxiety is the idea of pretending to be confident, even when anxiety is underneath the surface. Faking a sense of confidence often leads to a decrease in anxiety when one realizes that the situation is not as bad as imagined. Many people get social anxiety at times, and when all else is impossible, faking a sense of calm or comfort may actually work.

    8. Find Distractions

Another way to cope with social anxiety is to create some distractions. Once anxiety symptoms start, create a distraction, shift your mind and thoughts to something else, and try to stay with the new thoughts. A distraction can be as simple as thinking about what you want to do tomorrow, calling someone on your cell phone, or paying attention to something else that does not make you feel uncomfortable. Focusing on the anxiety will only increase it.

    9. Rehearsals

Practicing or role playing how you plan to act in a certain social situation can help some to decrease their level of anxiety. Rehearsing how you want to act in specific social situations can help to prepare for the actual event. If a goal is to meet someone new in a social situation, practicing making small talk with a friend can be helpful and build confidence.

    10. Avoid High Anxiety Situations
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Avoidance of certain social situations may not sound like a good coping tip, but there are times when certain social situations may cause too much anxiety. Walking into a social situation that is causing significant anxiety ahead of time may not always be the best idea until you are able to relax more and feel comfortable enough to handle the situation. The most important part is to know your own triggers and which situations are on the high end of anxiety, and which situations are moderate or low level anxiety situations. Coping with lower level social situations successfully can build the confidence to attempt those situations which are higher on your list of anxiety-provoking situations.http://gad.about.com/od/selfhelp/a/relprobs.htmhttp://www.psyclinic.ro/Anxietatea%20sociala,%20fobia%20sociala.html

                   A charming medieval town, Sighisoara seems ideal destination for lovers of history, knights and princesses. City with extensive cultural traditions, Sighisoara hosts annually between 27 and 29 July, Sighisoara Medieval Festival, and exacerbating and thus promoting the main feature, that of the medieval city. Narrow, winding streets, specific times long past, transporting visitors into another world with other characters, and if tourists will arrive in the city during typical medieval festival will have the opportunity to discover long forgotten traditions and customs.                Almost every building in Sighisoara has a story worthy of being known. For example, on the way to the old city, tourists can discover the memorial house and bust scientist Hermann Oberth, born in 1894 in Sibiu. He followed the family in Sighisoara, teaching eight years at the Hill Gymnasium. World War will compel them to continue their studies in Munich and Neidelberg but will return later teaching profession practicing in Sighisoara and Medias.             Clock Tower - the symbol of the medieval townClimbing, tourists will find the main gate to the city, tall, arched and reach one of imaginil symbols of the medieval fortress, clock tower, which today houses the Museum of History of Sighisoara.Built in the thirteenth and fourteenth centuries with main gate tower, which will house, from the fourteenth century until the middle of the sixteenth century the city council seat, making a building of great importance. Inside this chamber could deliver and exeuta death penalty sentences. Insignia local authority enjoyed this edifice are visible, the four towers about 12.5 meters high, located on the corners of the building serving to mark the importance of building in city life. On each side of the tower meets one clock symbol in the life of Western medieval castles and niches with figures: Peace with trumpet and olive Ramu, Justice, Justice and two smaller figures marked craftsmen working day Day and night. Today in History Museum can be visited Sighisoara torture chamber, where one can find extremely interesting exhibition of objects of medieval torture. Also, weapons enthusiasts, you can visit Museum's Medieval, which houses a collection of weapons, military equipment and techniques. Personally, I recommend visiting the top floor of the Clock Tower. The view is extraordinary, tourists can have a complete overview of the whole city. However, to reach the top floor, visitors have to climb stairs narrow and very uncomfortable to walk Cori tight and short, but the view is worth every effort.